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For Girls of All Ages
Misc. notes on trying to be a godly woman


What We Understand Better Now that We’re Older
This started out as a journal entry when I turned 40. But then, as I celebrate friends' birthdays, I thought these thoughts would be an encouraging gift on significant birthdays. At 40, we understand that God’s plan is not past tense or hidden in the obscure future. It is continuous. Current. It is to live this day: within these circumstances, in this obedience. Embracing the ever-unfolding plan. At 40, isn’t it great to stretch out in the assurance of His securi

Barb Peil
Nov 97 min read


Vows for Every Girl: Promises I Made to Myself about Living Single after 40
It happens every June. I attend a wedding—and an old, sad question gets stuck in my heart. “I wonder if I’ll ever marry.” Although I am sincerely happy for the new couple, the melancholy sneaks in around the time they say their vows, “For better or for worse . . . for richer or for poorer . . . in sickness and in health . . . to love and to cherish . . . for as long as we both shall live.” Year after year I heard those promises and pondered how extremely significant they wer

Barb Peil
Oct 289 min read


What to Do in the Meantime: Waiting for a Spouse
Don’t lose heart . . . consider Jesus . Hebrews 12:3 Most of life is anticipation. You look forward to the weekend. To the completion of a project. Vacation. The big career break. Rest at the end of the day. The Lord’s return. The day you meet “the one.” Or if He should tarry, (the Lord, that is) the day you feel completely content. “One of these days . . .” you say to yourself. With varying intensities, the list goes on. Right now, I bet you could list five thi

Barb Peil
Oct 287 min read
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